Every woman deserves true love and affection. So why do most women feel they are not being treated the right way by men?
Most dates start out well, with lots of attention and compliments. However, once things settle, he loses interest and becomes disrespectful. You become an inconvenience, and wait desolately for him to be a great guy again.
Unfortunately, this never happens, because guys will simply do what they want once they have you. They do not do this out of malice; it is just how guys are. Rather than the paradise you expected, you only receive scraps of attention and affection.
Which begs the question, are you going to beg at his feet for the rest of your life?
Settling for much less is an affront to your dignity, self-worth, and respect. It proves to him that you are too desperate to demand the affection you deserve.
Let’s look at 5 lousy behaviors from so-called nice guys, so that you see them for what they are. This will hopefully help you stand up for what you desire, and reject anything less.
1. He receives late night phone calls
Every woman knows how annoying and intrusive late calls can be. Tolerating this behavior is detrimental to your self esteem.
You may think you are giving him freedom to be who he is, but late calls are usually from women trying to irritate you. No matter how grateful you are for getting a new guy, stooping this low will leave you feeling used, unappreciated, and jealous.
2. He is always late
He is never punctual with you, and always keeps you waiting for him. To make matters worse, he never calls to say he will be late, or even cancel. Yet he always rushes to keep time with his friends.
Annoyingly enough, he gets very irritated or defensive when you complain about it. This really hurts, especially when he shouts at you for keeping him waiting. This is a very crummy habit.
3. He forgets your birthday
Birthdays, anniversaries, and other important dates are treasured by those who love you. If your man consistently forgets your birthday, he undoubtedly thinks you are not important.
Does he remember his own birthday, his mother’s, or friend’s? Does he dodge buying you gifts by giving silly excuses? Does he expect you to remember his birthday, or buy him presents? This is a man in love with himself, not you.
4. He uses foul language
If your man regularly uses foul language with you, wake up and smell the coffee. You most likely feel insulted every time he talks to you, especially in front of other people. This clearly shows he does not respect or value you.
Although swearing has become common, a man who treasures his woman never uses disrespectful language with her. Put a stop to this, for the sake of your dignity.
5. He constantly uses sexual innuendo
A woman can feel like a sexual object, if her man incessantly refers to her in sexual terms. Men use sexual innuendo with women they only want to sleep with. A man who cares and considers you his true love, will not treat you like a piece of meat.
Sexual innuendo may be mistaken for sexual attraction, but it is not. It is demeaning and disrespectful.
As a woman, you deserve to be in a loving relationship, where you feel pampered and cared for. These 5 lousy habits from men are the early signs of an abusive, and psychologically damaging relationship.